Sum it up for ya!

“Winners compare their achievements with their goals, while losers compare
their achievements with those of other people”-Nido Qubein

If you can't be a good friend and be happy, I mean genuine happiness in your heart, for your "friends" then get out.....

If you want to compare everything to me, then get out...I don't have time for that. I don't' care about your education level, how much money you make, what rank your husband is, how long he's been in, how much HE makes, what kind of car you drive...but somehow these things are SO important to you that you have to bring them up.

If you don't have enough self confidence to believe in yourself, be happy for yourself and be PROUD of who you are, how can I help that, how do I help lift you up? My words of encouragement and uplifting are shot down, and after a while it get's old and I don't want to be the one you "lean on"...

I don't feel sorry for people, nor myself. You won't be the best at everything, the prettiest, or the richest-that's reality. So stop feeling sorry for your situation, and step up.

If you feel at the bottom of your game, then to me, you have one way to go, and that's UP! Now start looking up, and BELIEVING it....be grateful for compliments and stop downing yourself, it's annoying.

I am just so sick of hearing all these women my age piss and moan about their "lack of money" "their kids" "their jacked car" "their this and that"...and then COMPARING it to all their other "lady friends"....sheesh. Then when I try to be nice, it's me being bitchy cause 'you don't understand'.....no I guess I don't.

I guess I like to be happy and be grateful for the things in my life. I guess I understand that life doesn't give you everything you WANT. That things in life have to be earned. You have work hard for things, no one is just going to give you something cause they feel sorry for you.

Reality is REAL. If you want something, here's a concept, go work for it, go get it, go after it! Stop bitching about it and get it!

---just thought I give a little piece of my mind and some tough love to myself and whomever read this....if you got offended, my bad, you don't have to read this. It's not to offend, it's to inform...and maybe give me some release too.