A Saying I Read

I read this today, and it needs to be read by so many....especially the weak in soul who like to point fingers, yell things they have no idea about, and make up false situations to better their side and hide their hurt and anger....It definitely made me think about the words I say, cause words, no matter who from, they mean something, and when they are accusations and untrue, they stick....they hurt, and they make me want to disprove the allegations and be a better person....That's what I am working on.

“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”

I know some people in this life who showboat about being happy....when you showboat, usually it's the opposite about what you are "raving" about. Ignorance is bliss for those; they are oblivious to the truth and hurt of the real world; they are oblivious to the true nature of relationships--that truth, honesty, and a willingness to give up a piece of yourself is required....you can't expect others to be the only ones to do that.

Comparing yourself to a friend also jeopardizes the relationship. It's taints the free love spirit that a true friendship is. How do you be a friend who always sees the bad in you, the "you're better then me" attitude? If your friend does something you don't like or you don't understand; ask, don't blame, cause it ruins what ever could have been.

Anyways, just something happened the other day that made me think of this, and I got an email from a old friend about being happy, with scriptures and such, with the saying, about blame. It made me want to write about it; get my feelings and thoughts out on it.....just my stuff....take it as you will.