job recession??

How is that the people who are "looking for work" and "can't get a job" are the ones taking vacation everywhere....they complain about not finding a job,m but in essence, believe me I know, it actually takes WORK to look for a job....hat I don't get is the people who have no income are going on vacations and then complaining about no job later....hmmm whatever.

My niece and our dog

On our way through Texas, from Key West to San Diego....how precious.

San Diego

Moved to San Diego, getting settled in, and I should be unpacking a few more boxes and organizing, but I am doing this instead. LOL. I am def loving it here, although military housing was a flop...if you don't have kids and have large dogs, look elsewhere, that would be my advice. We finally found a nice house in the Paradise Hills area, big huge backyard I am trying to grow grass in. Living off base for us is different since back in KW we lived on base housing.

Jake loves the Coronado Beach Park though, we went last week when mom and dad were down, it's nice to be close to family again....even though my sister and brother in law moved to Maryland, I hope they are settling in well.

I am going to load some pictures from our drive from Key West, Fl to San Diego, Ca....what a drive!!

Mr. Obama Birth Certificate/$25 million to Libya?

So, Mr. President, so many were under the impression that you ALREADY proved you were a US Citizen....so why PROVE it, or at least appear to prove it now? Ohhhh, that's right, you just approved $25 million dineros for no lethal aid to Libia....GREAT, more money WE DON'T have to another country besides our own.....awesome. How about you deal with gas going over $4 bucks, job loss, economy, gas prices, home loans, HEY Mr. PREZ "BAIL ME OUT"!!!!! Ugh, so over this whole administration digging us into a even deeper grave. I am proud to be an American, Mr. President, why don't you start acting like you are too???

http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2011/04/26/obama-authorizes-25-million-non-lethal-aid-libyan-rebels/?test=latestnews

Women and competition.

I am not sure I understand why some women are so destructive to other women; those who they call their friends.

Like why do women have to compete with other women? I don't get it. Like why is is that women who have friends have to have "friendship competitions?" Like when friend A & B post that they had a good time here and there, why does, NOW, friend C & B have to point out where they went too.....it's like, comon' ladies, it's not original and it's not funny, it's high school and immature. To me, looks like someone is jealous of someone else's friendship. Ugh, so over it.

Why can't people just be happy with their situations and their friendships? Why do they have to compete with one another, like they're jealous of each others friendships? It's not a competition. I don't think there are some ladies who got this memo....it IS okay for your friends to have OTHER friend. UGh.(this is why I love the hide button on facebook!---now I can hide your meaningless posts).

Dove Chocolate Party.....fun fun!

So, tonight I went to a Dove Chocolate Party and it was So much fun!!! Had a great time meeting new people and visiting with old friends. It was a great time and, Monika, the host, was so much fun! If you ever get the opportunity to go to one, GO! It's a great way to get to mingle and eat some chocolate!

Why

Why do people settle for those who are trash? Seriously, why do people settle for the low lives, the people who treat them like garbage, the ones who marry "just to keep him/her happy"? I don't get it. If you are miserable, I HOPE you didn't knowingly choose to get into that. You can't change your spouse, you can't change them into what you want, that's why there are 6 billion or so people on this earth. To CHOOSE from. If you are miserable, say something or get out...but please don't get married to someone you know will have to make you sacrifice ALL your happiness just so that they can be happy.... I see this a lot with military marriages: getting married because their pregnant, or young, or he's leaving, or they graduated high school, or he's going on a boat. Wait. If I would tell young people anything about the military and marriage is WAIT.

We weren't going to wait, but after discussion and advice (yes, we asked for that rather then shunned it), but I am so glad we did. We are both so different now then we were 6 years ago, and honestly, we thought of getting married cause he was "leaving", but it made no sense to me. I will never understand that concept of the military "relationship".....It was like, why get married when he's be leaving and could die? Either way, I'd be alone for the first part of our marriage; we didn't want that.

The military's high divorce rate is due to this: people marrying other people they don't love, but rather, are comfortable with. I see so many of these active duty guys who are miserable, and to a handful of them, I think, heck I know you wife, no wonder you are miserable...it's sad but true. These are the women who hate all other women. You know these types, they are the one who think anyone who is a female is either a)hunting her husband down cause they LOVE him, 2)skinner then her, or 3)"well she's just a bitch". Don't laugh, it's true.

My advice, WAIT and WAIT until you find someone who truly makes you happy. If you get pregnant, don't marry her cause you have a baby, marry her cause you love her, this is another royal screw up with many military families: Oooops babies and then mommy and daddy suddenly get married and love each other, seriously, just because you can have sex and get pregnant does not make you IN LOVE. Don't get married cause you think it's right...the kids will know, and statistically speaking, you have a higher divorce rate. You can be a parent and not be married to the other biological parent. Why would you marry someone you don't love, and in lots of cases, grow to "put up with".....

I don't understand all these young people who have "miserable" marriages around me...1)I don't care, and 2)You chose this? I mean, everyone has their problems, but bitching about your husband all the time, and your kids, and daycare, and you hate this and don't like her? Honestly, maybe you're miserable because you, yourself, are a miserable person and you don't like where you're at, even though you made this choice. Own up to it and grow a pair. Get over it and do something or be content with the fortunate chance you were given.

All this is another reason why NOT to settle for the one you "want to hook up with" rather then the one you "want to marry". You'll wind up like so many others: miserable and feeling stuck.